Thursday, May 16, 2013

Thick is always the right size! Interview with author Nah'Sun

Hello beautiful people! Today is the day, the interview you've all been waiting for is finally here! Today I give to you the interview with author Nah'Sun writer/creator of the "Thick" series of books geared towards full figured women. His books In the Thick Of Things, Thick When Chances are Slim, and Thick in the Nick of time are all honest, raw, and true to subject books that I'm sure every plus size women can relate to. Each of the characters in this series of books I can say that I've either known if real life(personality of the character in relation to people I have known) or people that I can see actually doing the things describes in the books. So without further delay I give you our interview. Please visit Nah'Sun's website, details will be below following our interview; and support our artists who are bringing positivity to the plus size/full figured community. It's not often we are the sex symbols, best friends, positive subject (muse), and love interest in anything; so please take advantage of this platform and support him and others like him that spread the word of how amazing we all are!


1. I'm so glad you gave me this opportunity to interview you. Can I ask, why you chose me?

You didn’t act Hollywood when I met you at the Full Figured Pageantry in Jersey.

2. What do you expect to get from this interview? What is it you want people to know about you or
Author Nah'Sun
your series of books?

People on social sites complain about being bored. My interviews are the cure to getting rid of boredom in your life. As far as my books, readers will know they’ll get their money’s worth because even if they dislike the books, they’ll still get something from them.

3. Who inspired you to become a writer?

Winning 25 dollars on a Malcolm X essay that bested everyone in the 4th grade level of my elementary school inspired me…when I was in the 4th grade of course. The rest is history.

4. Have you been on a book tour? If so what cities have you visited? 

I pick and choose the places I wanna hit up. Some markets are stronger than others. Philly, Detroit, Atlanta, Delaware, Miami, DC, Boston, NYC, New Jersey, and Virginia are places I’d hit up so far. I still gotta hit up the West Coast.

What’s funny is that I haven’t done a book signing in Chicago (where I’m from), but that’s mainly due to industry politics.

5. Because of your attraction to full figured women which inspired you to create the "Thick" series dedicated to their voluptuousness, as a man how do you know what full figured women want?

Asking questions gave me insight of what they go through. Then I let my imagination run its course. I’ve been dating plus size women for awhile, so in a lot of cases I didn’t have to do the homework because I knew the homework.

6.  Do you agree that "Thick is the new thin?" Why?

Thick is NEVER the new thin because plus size women were always attractive to the public eye. The Sarah “Saartijie” Baartman story tells you that. Google her. It’s just that society loves to front on the big girls and make way for their slender counterparts.

There maybe a racial undertone to the shunning of thick women because women of African descent are mostly known for wide hips and large butts. You know it’s hard for Black women to get props for their beauty as it is, but overall, it’s hard for big girls of all shades to get some shine for their beauty.

7.  Have you always dated full figured women? And what makes you so attracted to them?

Blame my uncle’s ex-wife for walking out the room half naked when I was 3 years old. She was full figured with some tig ol biddies. Seeing her half naked changed my life forever.

Full figured women are attracted to me for some reason. I don’t size discriminate, but most of my dates have been plus size women.

8.  What type of full figured woman do you find attractive? For example, conservative, candid,
 spontaneous etc.  And why?

A woman with some common sense who can hold an intellectual conversation even if I disagree with her is attractive. That makes me horny. Physical attraction is just the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.

9.  If you had to choose a feature that you loved the most on a full figured woman what would it be?

This must be a trick question because I’m an ass man. My answer is generic as hell, but it is what it is. A round basketball ass with wide “baby making hips” is a plus. I love palming asses.

10. There isn't a lot of fashion in your series, do you not like what full figured women are wearing? 

Clothes don’t make the woman, the woman makes the clothes. I write stories to bare the soul of my characters, not write a book that’s a glorified commercial for brand name clothes, cars, shoes and alcoholic beverages without me getting paid for it.

11. What sort of outfit would you like to see? 

Outfits like dresses, skirts, blazers, fishnet stockings, or anything sexy but classy unless I’m writing an erotic scene where a woman is wearing only her birthday suit with “phuck me pumps” if I want her kinky

12.  I love the table of jewels (contents) section in your books, it really sets the tone for each section and resembles a menu. How did you get the idea to set it up that way? And what was your intention?

I like to be different. I use certain phrases to describe chapters without giving them away. In the original THICK novel I used foods, and in the sequel I used funny phrases. I dare to stand out, and it worked since you asked me a question about my table of content.

13. Your main character seems to be all over the place when it comes to relationships.  Is this a reflection of the author?

My characters are based on imagination and what I see and hear on the regular. Some of my characters are all over the place because they’re chaotic. Life is chaotic, and that reflects a lot of my characters. The goal for them is to either find themselves, or forever get destroyed by their recklessness.

14. Which character is your favorite of the series? And why?

My favorite character in the THICK series so far is Born Life. He’s the person I might’ve become if I was wild and uncivilized.

15. In regards to preparation, how did you come up with story lines? And what mindset did you put
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yourself into in order to create this series?

I write a quick outline and work from there. My imagination crushes the outline once I freestyle the story and find my groove. I already know what I wanna write in the series. I just gotta execute what I have in mind.

That’s the hard part.

16. When you write do you know how you want the story to end? Or do you let it flow and figure it out as you go?

I don’t know how the story ends until I write. Hell, I constantly change the story in my mind as I write once I get the feel of a story. That’s why it takes me 9 months to complete a novel. I don’t wanna rush when I know I can do better.

17. In the intro section you said "Invest in your career." What advice would you give aspiring writers interesting in a career in publishing?

Master the art of writing by taking a creative writing course at a community college. I majored in Journalism and minored in English a 4-year university, but you don’t have to spend an arm and a leg to get your feet wet with writing. Just take a writing course or two, or participate in a writing fellowship to get a feel of how others view your work.

I sharpened my swords to take off heads before I stepped foot in the book game. You only get one good crack at a first impression once you release your debut novel. Also know the business. If the business side isn’t right, nothing else matters regardless of how talented you are.

18. I love your writing style, it's relate-able and the message is easily understood. What or whom inspired you to write that way?

I bombed with my first novel. My first novel (which shall remain nameless) sold very well, but a lot of people didn’t “get it” because the writing style was too literary, meaning you wouldn’t understand the style unless you had a clear understanding of metaphors, symbolism, motifs and other literary devices. It was the type of book you’ll read in class instead of your vacation. I switched my style and put the most profound messages in a simpler form without the bells and whistles.

In other words, I got to the point and kept it simple without dumbing down.

19. In Thick When the Chances are Slim, you've said that you can appreciate a woman's physical self without perversion. Can you elaborate?

I can look at a naked woman without the urge to sleep with her. That’s why my books covers are illustrated the way they are. Some people criticized the book covers of THICK 1 and 2, but I make no apologies for how they were drawn. I purposely made them artistically erotic to subconsciously put the thought in people’s minds that plus size women are sexy, too.

We shouldn’t be afraid of nakedness, but society is so undisciplined and tainted to the point where the days of walking on earth clothes-less without worries are over. This isn’t the Garden of Eden. It’s a jungle. That’s why women gotta cover up more when they dress up so guys, and society at large, can focus on their inner beauty instead of plotting on ways to get in their jeans or judging them.

20. In regards to writing, publishing, and promoting what would you have done differently? 

I would’ve written the THICK series first. The THICK style is simple enough for everyone to follow. It’s catchier. My first novel was too difficult for a lot of readers to follow. That’s when I realized that people read fiction for entertainment purposes and not necessarily for the poetics of the writing.

21. How do you plan to deal with the switch from hardcover or paperback book to that of the digital
book?

eBooks are the devil, but I’ll eventually convert my paperbacks to digital because people nowadays act like they can’t read a book unless it’s digital. It’s funny because they’ve been reading hardcover and paperbacks for years. Now they act like it’s a sin to not read eBooks.

Society is slowly but surely becoming enslaved by technology, but hey, it is what it is.

22.  What else can we expect for the "Thick" series?

Expect your money’s worth. I bust my ass when I write so you can bust your ass at work to spend 15 bucks on one of my books. Fair exchange is no robbery.

23.  What's next for Nah'Sun? 

Who knows…I might get into porn…anything’s possible.

24. Where can we find your novels? 

You can find my novels at any mom and pop spot, and also hit up the company’s website @ www.nahsunblaze.com to get an autographed copy of my books once you order.

You show love, you get love. You do dirt, you get mud.

Peace

Nah’Sun the Great




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Sunday, May 5, 2013

CONFESSIONS of a Plus Size Fashion Blogger: Don't judge me at first glance, Get to know me first




Hello Beautiful People! I've been thinking of creating this CONFESSIONS series for a while but I wasn't exactly sure of how to approach the subject. So I'm going to speak from my heart and hope that you guys can understand where I'm coming from. In my other posts I gave you a glimpse of what is was like to grow up plus size in this series I won't give peaks, but the whole picture.

Thank you guys so much for rocking out with me and supporting me on my blog and YouTube as well as other social media outlets. Today the blinders come off, and if you were never plus size after I'm done you will know about it.
Uniquely me!

The first thing I want to say is that being Plus Size or Full Figured doesn't mean you are not healthy, nor does it mean that you are. When I started blogging my purpose was and STILL is to get the message out there that WE ARE BEAUTIFUL TOO to sum it up. But the question really is why does that message have to keep being re-iterated over and over? I think it's because we've been painted as being ugly, fat, nobody cares about you for so long that it starts to become us, we except what other people think we are and live with it; I was NEVER that type. I have lost MANY a friend because I would allow them to put me in that category of: Oh your the fat girl in the group(Cause as you can see, your girl is FAR from ugly) so you hold the purse. This is usually the part where I would shout obscenities, but I'm going to keep it classy today.

So, because of that its my mission to let my sistas (and brothas) know that I understand, I've been through it too.

I've been through so many different phases trying to figure out who I am and what I want to achieve, so I think my experience is what makes it easy for me to say some of the things that will come to this series. The first thing that was the most OBVIOUS was that I had to stop looking for validation. It didn't happen on purpose, it was more like I was drafted into in but it happened all the same.When I was younger, I use to think that if I wasn't "Perfect" that I wouldn't be able to compete in the same arena with people (women) who had what I deemed better features than I did. So, in my mind if I had a scar, didn't say the right thing, made a miscalculation or misstep that I would not be redeemable. So, being a typical GEMINI I went( and still do!) HARD on everything I set out to do. For me failure is NOT an option. After a while, I asked myself; "Am I doing this for me, or for the approval of other people?"



I changed my way of thinking, I learned to except me. It was hard some days is harder than others, but I
know that I WILL succeed because I believe in me and it doesn't matter what the critics say, hell they need me to stay employed. My greatest love outside of my family is doing this blogging, writing, and being honest with you guys! Full figured fashion is one aspect of me, in Confessions were going to go a little bit deeper.







As this series continues I will touch on different scenarios and situations, hopefully you guys can relate to it; if not please try to understand it. Life isn't about always trying to get it right, but living it right for as long as you can.









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Sunday, April 21, 2013

Plus Size Essentials: Must haves for spring/summer





 Hi Beautiful People! In my search for great plus size fashion for the spring/summer I've come across some great finds that I wanted to share with you guys! Everything you'll see are all plus sized or at plus size retailers. Tell me what you think of each of them? Are they FIERCE or FAIL?








So loving this Braid in Manhattan necklace from Fashion to Figure.






First Braid Stretch Bracelet from Fashion to Figure.
 Flair Des Lis Ponte Tank Top from Fashion to Figure.
 Winning Points Dot Print Tank Top.




Swim Dress from Old Navy.



Women's plus Slub Knit Halter cover up from Old Navy.












Forever 21 Extended calf boot.




Forever 21 Studded tank





Fitted Blazer from Forever 21




Torrid Scarlet Peep Toe Heel







Cream and Black Dorsey Heel from Torrid.


JC Penney Worthington Belted Glam Dress.




Worthington Square Neck Color Block Dress from JC Penney.



Monif C Bridgette Cape Black Dress in Nude




Steve Madden Dafni Bootie.







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Sunday, March 31, 2013

Are you comfortable in your CURVY?



 How comfortable in the shape of your body? Many women struggle with this question. As young girls we are taught that beauty is what people can see and not what they feel. When I say taught, I don't mean by our parents or teachers; I mean by visual images. Perceptions of what the American standard of beauty is or can be. How about we change that perception? How? By asking ourselves the basic question of am I comfortable in my curvy?

How can you tell if you or another woman is comfortable in their curvy? Easily done, watch how they move, they way they carry themselves or their weight. If she moves with a flow or grace like walking from one point to the next is effortless, then YES she is comfortable in her curvy.

If a women hides herself under large ill fitting clothing, doubts herself before anyone else gets the chance to, and walks with a discomfort that makes others uncomfortable by watching her move; then it's safe to assume that this woman is not comfortable in her own skin. How can this woman(women) move past how they see or feel about themselves to project a positive image that can radiate from the inside out? 

For years I've had friends of all sizes and plus size women in particular seem to not know how to carry themselves so that they; and people around them are at ease. Have you ever seen a plus size girl with jeans or other clothes so tight that her clothes are screaming LET US FREE! And when they  move the discomfort is visible?  That is clearly a woman who is not comfortable in her curvy. A woman  is truly comfortable all the above occurrences will not happen.

It really hurts me to see my sisters look as if they're hating who they are when really its who they are that makes them a better woman. Can you name women in the public eye who are curvy and beautiful? And in being comfortable in their own beauty has changed the way society views CURVY women?



I for one am going to continue to fight the good fight in hopes that one day women like myself & others will be accepted in the fashion industry. It took most of my adult years to accept my own body, and that was mostly due to what I saw boys were interested in when they were looking at girls to date. And some of those insecurities carried over into adulthood until I was able to understand and challenge what people thought beauty was.

So, I challenge you to challenge others into changing what they consider the standard of beauty to be. In the meantime stay Beautiful, Confident, & Sexy!

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Monday, March 18, 2013

PlusSizePrincessDom is now on INSTAGRAM!

Hello beautiful people, I'm now on Instagram at PlusSizePrincessDom please follow me! On Instagram we will be taking plus size fashion on the street, up close, & personal. Together we're going to see how real women wear clothes, style, complement, & shop! Beautiful people, real women have CURVES and were going to e pore them together.

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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Sexy turns Plus Size: My shopping trip to Torrid



Hello Dolls! I recently went on a shopping trip to Torrid. For those of you who don't know Torrid is a trendy plus size store more for twenty somethings; originally it was for people who are into Gothic type clothes, but they have branched out and really hit the mark on what a full figured women that's in her twenties likes to wear & that she wants to be sexy and trendy; instead of matronly and in bad taste. so here are a few photos of some outfits I tried on and bought.






This top I wore to work, it felt great against my skin and I felt good in it. I think it flattered my curves without revealing too much.













This is the back of it. I thought that the back being out would be too revealing but it turned out to be PERFECT!
















A better picture from the front.











This is the same top in a shimmery black color, ok I'm one of those girls that will buy the same top in different colors; because it can be worn to different occasions. Like this one for instance can be worn to a club, or party whereas the other one would be only for the office type setting. With this top I can be more playful and dress it up with booties or a high heel and accessories to give it an evening or club look.







I love this top! This is what I call multipurpose. I can were it to school or work; and dress it up to go out with my girls! It has a open section over the chest, and has a piece of fabric across the neck. I think I love this top because of the chest area. If  you don't know me I love to push my breasts up and attempt to give myself a more hour glass figure. I am plus size, but I have lost a little weight and I'm shaping up nicely. This top shows my shape coming in.

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Usually, I don't like dresses; and that's because I always felt awkward in them. But every once in a while I find a dress that gives me the look & feel that I want. Though not the greatest picture; this dress is gorgeous on me. It's free flowing across my stomach so I can hide it a bit, I'm going to pair it with a short wrap to frame my top and make it look better or cleaner shaped, a pair of booties to give me some height (because I'm a shorty,lol), and a pair of fish net type tights(like the one's below) to finish it off.






These would be what I have in mind to make sexy legs, even SEXIER!








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Thursday, March 7, 2013

Plus size or full figured doesn't mean FAT!



For years women have been laboring under the misconception that a curvy woman is automatically considered a FAT woman. The stigma has lasted for as long as fashion has existed. Why? It was always thought that a woman has a shape outside of a straight line, she is fat or more commonly known as now is obese. This concept is simply not true. Like everything else in life there are degrees to measure the body type of a woman.

But I'm not talking about measuring, I'm more concerned with how we as women are made to feel when it's suggested that to be attractive you have to fit this perfect mold that all or most people want to be categorized as.

No! You do not have to be fat to be plus size. What prompted me to discuss this further it a conversation I had with a friend. During this conversation I realized I knew many people who thought of curvy women as plus size; including themselves. And for some women to come to the realization that they are not the size they use to be or not the size they want to be is scary. So what happens? You  and I both know what happens... They go after clothing that doesn't make them feel good or sexy, but depressed because it doesn't drape the right way on their bodies.

Question: Why do we lie?

Why is it so hard to come to grips with the fact that 'I need a bigger size?'  Why when we consider cars, money, houses, etc bigger is better; with people sweet is petite? And it echoes so loudly that soon that's all we hear and it becomes our obsession. Healthy is one thing forcing your body to conform to another persons standards is another story entirely.

Looking at clothing ads for full figured women you will see that most of those women are not plus size because their FAT; but because they have large breast, and wide hips. In what world is LARGE BREASTS and WIDE HIPS ever wrong?

Listen, I am every bit full figured. I have large breasts, wide hips, round stomach and yes I could be healthier but over all I am happy with myself.  I would rather buy clothes that fit and look good on me regardless of its size; then to buy something much smaller, makes me look a HOT MESS, and get me all the wrong attention simply out of pure vanity of a number size no one will see because the tags are on the inside of my clothes... Tell me what is the problem with that?

No, you don't have to be fat to be considered full figured; but you do have to be dumb to consider yourself anything short of it!

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