Love, Sex & Relationships: How did I hook up with YOU!

Hello Dolls! How long has it been since you've been on a date? If ever? A lot of full figured women get into relationships and completely skip the dating part. In doing that we don't get to know the person were with, then have the nerve to be surprised when they play us out or push us to the left. That kind of dating isn't really dating and we as full figured men/women have to be careful of who we let into our space.

How many or your relationships end with you wondering how the hell you got into them in the first place? GUILTY! I've definitely been in some questionable relationships and after it was over I couldn't figure out for the life of me how I got in it in the first place. As a rule a rule I NEVER date in the winter time. I know your looking at this like...Yup! I knew she wasn't wrapped too tight. And you maybe right; but feel me on this. Most tired, good for nothing men prey on full figured women or any woman really in the winter time. Why? I 'll tell you why, because summer is over; so that means PLAY TIME is over too. So, now these "men" have to find a winter time boo to be hugged up with to get through the winter. For example, a plus size women is good for this type of guy, because were considered to be motherly, keep a clean house(well, most of us!), and be good cooks(again, most of us!), and be good lovers. Now, how some of this is said to be true of women, plus size women are more vulnerable because of "low self esteem" that some can carry from previous relationships. Not just with men, but people in general.

With that being said; ladies you, we, us have to be more cautious of who we allow in our lives, bedrooms, and YES checking accounts! Some of you ladies go crazy and give a dudes access to your car (knowing he doesn't have a license), bank accounts, credit cards then get a rude awakening when as soon as SPRING comes in he tells you that he needs space; and your smothering him. After that what happens? Your left tired, lonely, angry, BROKE, and a mess! Not everyone does this but some females do. Some of you shy away from your friends for this guy and put him first even when you know he puts you last. Now baby, is that the kind of relationship you really want. And what's worse is after spring/summer is over GUESS WHO is ringing your phone off the HOOK? Sad isn't it?

when  issues like this happens some of us measure ourselves against another women. This has to stop! Were all unique and have that extra special something that we bring to the table. Our abilities, strengths and weaknesses are different; and so is our beauty inside and out! KNOW YOUR WORTH!



So, how do we fix it? Work on you first, understand your own needs and wants. That will make it easier for you to spot a Bulls**t artist when you see one. Keep busy and focused on work, school, family, friends, because in the end those are the people who are going to hold you down when rough times happen.Get together with your girlfriends and have a girls night in/out. Doing that will take your mind off the BUFFOONERY that occurred prior. I know its hard but try to keep yourself in balance as much as possible. If your balance things won't stress you out as much and you will be able to make judgements or decisions with a clear conscience and a present mind.


As always stay BEAUTIFUL, CONFIDENT, & SEXY!


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From Blah to Bright: New colors leading to a new you!

Hello ladies! Today I want to talk with you about our color personalities. As plus size women we tend to stick to dark colors, mostly because like everyone we all know that dark colors like for example black; hides a multitude of sins. Well ladies I challenge you! I challenge you to step out of your box and branch into trying different colors. I am very guilty of committing the same crime. I think for the longest time I felt comfortable in black. It hid features I didn't want anyone to see, and it enabled me to not care what I looked like or how I felt when wearing it. Those days are over, I not only challenge you; but myself as well. Try to wear colors that in the past you've tried to stay away from, because you felt as if they were unflattering. If your still uncomfortable with those colors try pairing them with a dark color to make the dark color pop more; and be more appealing. Prints also scare some Plus Size Divas, well I'm here to tell you; fear no more! For the spring its very typical for plus size clothing retailers to carry floral prints. I don't know about you divas, but I'm not a fan of the floral print. Sometimes when I go into a store looking for a great spring/summer dress with prints on them; the prints are in the wrong places, bringing too much attention to what I don't want people to see, or the dress is cute; but the print on it makes it ugly. Have you ladies had any of these same issues? What are some of the things you've come across in your shopping adventures that made you want to turn and run? My rule of thumb when wearing a print is to pair it with a solid color. Depending on the print it self it can sometimes be difficult to imagine how you would wear it. But, I stress to you divas you'll never know how you feel about it until you try it for your self. Just because were big women doesn't mean that we are forever trapped in a world were the only color that exists is black. Until next time, Divas!


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