Santa baby, I know what I want under my tree...: My picks for great gifts!

What would you like Santa to leave for you under the tree this year? I know, it leaves you with the look of question marks on you face. Don't worry I have some great ideas that are sure to make your Naughty behavior seem very Nice. This year has been a rough on all of us, so when I started my Christmas shopping the first thing I did was come up with a budget; the next thing I did is go waaaay over it! I'm a lover of Christmas and I can't help but really go ham (crazy) when the season comes in, it's the only time of year when I don't quite feel the sting of life; however, I do feel it in my wallet. So to save you guys from the same pain I've just recently had the pleasure of making an acquaintance with; I've come up with some really great gift ideas that won't, YES! Won't break the bank but still have the potential to be knock out, fabulous gifts.

First,tonight lets leave the children(if you have any) at home and enjoy a romantic dinner for two, weather it be at home or at your favorite eatery make it your business to make this Christmas gift one for the record books. It doesn't have to cost a million dollars to let the person close to you know that they are appreciated, sometimes that is gift enough.

If a budget is what your on, then a romantic evening alone in a HOT bubble bath with your SWEETHEART is the all the gift you need to turn your NICE evening into a NAUGHTY one! With this gift and quick trip to the Dollar Store you can turn your plain Jane bathroom into a romantic spa getaway. Imagination, visual, ambiance is key with this gift, so be sure to color coordinate, have flow, and always make sure a beautiful sent is in the air.

Feeling a little nostalgic? Maybe this trip down memory lane will help you remember why you love Christmas! Watching this Christmas Classic, while cuddling with your honey is a great way to unwind from the liveliness of the day.

      

For the gadget person in your life an IPad case is a great way to protect your device and can also complement your style in a variety of colors, shapes, & sizes. Some of the fabric cases can be embroidered with names or special messages of love or encouragement to remind anyone of how special they are; and what they can achieve. Hope, isn't that what Christmas is all about?

For the music lover in your life Beats by dr. dre is defiantly their dream come true! The sound and clarity of these professional, and studio quality headphones can get you in the groove no matter how hectic your day.

For the man in your heart, Gucci Guilty is a great way to keep him smelling good, being confident, and  most of all trusting in your good taste to know what smells good on him and lights your fire at the same time; so basically its a win win for both of you!

Ladies, I didn't forget about us! I am a woman that LOVES to smell good! I like to smell like a man can eat me right up at the mere passing of me in the office, at home, and anywhere in between; so I know my ladies like the same type of attention. Philosophy products can do that for you with their bubble baths, shower gels, fragrances, and body lotions! You will be supple, and soft while remaining on your best behavior( at least for a little while).

Like I said before, I love to smell good and using Pink Sugar is one of the ways I like to do it! This smell is pretty, with a candy smell that isn't over powering. It can be worn with anything to anything, this sent is a multipurpose sent  that can fit  any occasion.

Sometimes a nice relaxing drink while reminiscing can be the best conversation you ever have with friends or loved ones. Doing this can oddly put things in perspective for you. Also, it can put you in line to face things you would otherwise turn from; and set goal that have been pushed to the back burner of your mind. Taking this time to focus can and will set you on the path of knowing or asking the common question; Whats next?

  Lastly, but certainly not least is LOVE. Giving someone your heart without any stipulation, or conditions is the best gift you could ever give another human being. This gift shouldn't be taken lightly and cherished for as long as possible for it is fragile; even though sometimes it cannot be easily broken it can definitely be wounded. So, please handle it with care!

So, that's my TOP 10 Christmas Picks I hope you like them as much as I do!

Remember your gift don't have to be the most expensive as long as when you give it, its from the heart! If you have anything to add please comment as you see fit.

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Growing up full figured: The Evolution of the big girl

This subject has been on my mind for quite some time. I've had trouble with this all my life. I never knew how effected I was until I started to recognize the patterns in the relationships I had or the choices I made (especially in men!). Honestly, it started with the movie Phat Girls that recently came on tv.  Not that I've never seen the movie before; it's more like I watched it with new eyes. What I saw before was a big girl trying to find love, what I see now is a big girl who once was a little girl with image issues trying to find love in another person instead of finding it within herself. In doing so she uses fat burners, diet pills and drinks; only to be disappointed that no change as occurred. How cliche right? But with all honesty its the truth, how many of us has the same story to tell? I know I do. As a full figured woman, I never thought about why I fight so hard to be heard, taken seriously, or even considered a factor. I now have an idea of why; (this is my opinion) I think its because as a full figured woman we are often pushed in to certain roles in life that don't necessarily fit who we are as people, and because of this we often become mean or bitter, some become desperate, needy, or clingy. These are roles we are stuck  in because those are the roles we see portrayed on tv or in real life; desperate women trying to fit in to a mold that isn't made for wide hips and thick thighs. Growing up I felt the same pressure to fit in, and in some ways I still feel the pressure; but it is a lot less, and I'm more excepting of who I am, and what I will possibly never be. Some ideas we may have of our selves isn't realistic to what our bodies can actually be. This is hard to face, but realism is a must! And I'm not in the habit of lying to anyone especially myself.  

Who do you remember in your growing up that gave a positive image of that a plus size man or woman should be?

Fashion is one way we've stepped out of the box with the stigma created around a sexier woman. In fashion I've found that I was sexy, expressive, desired, and flirtatious (well I'm naturally flirtatious anyway!); but the personality and confidence really comes out when your comfortable with who and what you are. How do you feel when your all done up and sexy?

Recently, being a bigger woman doesn't get the bad press it use to. Now we are the lead actresses, the love interests, as well as the best friends and mothers. We have really made strides in recent years and became the new "it" girls of society, IT TOOK LONG ENOUGH! How have you evolved? Can you approach someone and start a conversation or give a flirtatious eye to a gorgeous man/woman across the room? These are some things that come with growing up & evolving into a you that you want to be without the pressure of society constantly making comments on what you can't be.

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Curves and Fashion Shows!

Hi Beautiful People! Last night I attended Fashion Bang Out Fashion Show in Newark, NJ; this event also supported Breast Cancer and many audience members participated in the Walk that took place earlier in the day. I was also there to support one of Fashion Plus's Beauties of the Week who walked in the show. I'm here to tell you that the designers showed up and showed off! Of course, I have my favorites and YES! there were defiantly crowd pleasers, but (there is always a but right?) I wanted to see more from the full figured community. The designers had great collections only most were for the "sweet & petite" and not for the "thick & sexy." Although, there were two designers who showcased mostly plus size garments( only very few sweet & petite) one of them show outfits were geared more for a older woman. What happened to the early 20's to mid 30's ladies?

The other designer was in a word "AWESOME" she had a different style that really brought out a woman's curves no matter the age range she was in. Most of her outfits were African inspired, and for me it was love at first sight. Unfortunately I don't have any websites, but I promise I will do some digging and post them as soon as I can. I was also happy to see that even the designers that featured small models had a few curvy girls in their roster with beautiful clothing on; however, those outfits won't fit a woman bigger than a size 18.... Well, we win some; we lose some...

Overall, we were kind of left out. For all the progress Full Figured Fashion has made there was almost no evidence of it last night. That was the only part I would have changed( well that and I would have gotten a better seat).

The fashion show itself was a great event to attend; I really got inspired by the hosts, the presenters, the designers, and last but NOT least the confidence of the models! I don't know if I could ever do what they have done, but I do know one thing they came there with a purpose and the fulfilled it with not even a hint of hesitation; and for that and the awareness that was raised for Breast Cancer I salute you!

Stay Beautiful, Confident, and Sexy!

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Love & Sex the Plus Size Way: How much is too much to handle?

Hello my beauties! I know this is a fashion blog, but it's named Fashion Plus because every now and again I like to branch out into different arenas that concern the full figured community.

I recently was watching a vlog by one of my favorite vloggers Kimonica, and she brought up some issues I long forgot. The rejection of being a full figured person that always seem to fall into the "friendship zone" of a relationship instead of actually being in a relationship. How do you feel about that? Is having a relationship with a full figured person embarrassing to the people in relationships with them? Or is it just an insecurity that we have to get over? I think that's the question many of us pose when entering into a physical or mental relationship with a potential significant other.

Have you ever been that really cool guy or girl friend that is always there to listen to your friends problems and maybe offer a few kind or words of wisdom? If it ever went pass a casual friendship, how did that make you feel? Did your bond get stronger or did it sour?

The concept of "love" is scary no matter the person that your interested in, but before it gets to that point most of us start off as...yeah you guessed it FRIENDS! On the flip side someone could be interested in a plus size person, but could be embarrassed to be seen with you; honestly I think I've encountered that version a time or two on my life. Thankfully I've never been aware of it until after the fact.

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When I was a teenager I was so brain washed by what society thought beauty was that I never put myself in the category of beautiful. So it was a natural thing for me to be oblivious to someone who liked me; I would just write it off as "just being nice." Later another friend would tell me what happened and I'll never forget what she said. She said" he likes you but he won't talk to you like that because he's afraid of what his boys will think." you would think that was devastating, but it wasn't it's exactly what I expected, so i didn't give it a second thought. And that's sad but true. Have you experienced something similar?

So, in saying that how much is too much for you to handle? And what message are you conveying to the world, think about it.

Leave any comments, suggestions, or concerns below. Stay beautiful, confident, & sexy!

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5 Tips a Plus Size Diva must know to Be successful

Hello Dolls! Today I want to bring to you five tips that will make you successful in your industry. Lets be honest competition for a full figured man or woman its much harder than for our smaller counterparts to be considered for a particular career path, so in order to get a fair deal I have devised a few ways to get the ball in our court and climb that "corporate ladder."

Tip #1: know your occasion/profession and dress for it.

Nothing is worse or leaves a bad impression more than someone ill dressed for a meeting, interview, or presentation. You have 5 seconds to make a first impression and unfortunately the first one is always visual. For the full figured person this is a great task to perform, not only do you have to convey neat but capable as well. Some employers (not all) may assume that your size will be an issue when conducting certain tasks, you must prove to them in a non verbal way that you are fully capable of any task they set forth.

Tip #2: Wear confidence like you would your favorite pair of shoes!

When you walk into the room try to be the biggest personality there (no pun intended) not overwhelming or "cocky" but intelligent. As we all know there is a thin line between confident and cocky so try your best not to cross it. Just put in your mind that no one is sexier, more beautiful, or have half as much rapport as you. When this happens you feel more comfortable in your surroundings and that allows your personality to shine through giving the other person a glimpse into what it would be like to work with you.

Tip #3: Personal Style

Stand out as much as possible without overpowering onlookers. Make the other people look as if the were manufactured drones that are fresh from the assembly line. Their generic looks and personality will be no match for you. Just be aware of your surrounding and adjust if need be. Try not to wear strong perfumes or colones, nothing will turn someone off more than to be aquatinted with your fragrance Before they become aquatinted with you.

Tip #4: Be Knowledgeable

Study the company or background of the attendees as much as you can prior. That way you can build a casual conversation with one or a group of people and make them feel more relaxed to talk about a subject their familiar with. This relationship building can lead to networking within your industry as well as open you to new ones. Know your conversational strengths and play them up with full potential and growth; your bound to get the attention of some high profile person, client, or group that can lead you into the right direction.

Tip # 5: Coordination

No matter what industry your in, your ability to be adaptable to any corporate structure is essential. Start a routine and try to build or improve on it as soon as the occasion calls for it. Be the captain of every ship in your port; know what's going on and what their needs are. While doing this also remember that you are not every man or woman and sometime need to enlist the help of others, being a multi-tasked person doesn't mean you have to do it alone.

Remember these fives tips I'm sure they will come in handy! As always stay Beautiful, Confident, and Full figured! Until next time xo!

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Beauty of the Week! Who says beautiful only comes in one size?

Hello Dolls! Now being featured on Fashion Plus for Facebook is The Beauty of The Week! So, every curvy, full figured, or plus size king or queen who wants to show off the beauty that they've been blessed with post up your pictures as many or as little as you want and ONCE a week someone will be selected to wear the CROWN as Beauty of the Week and bragging rights!

When you post up your picture please say what you do or want to do for a living so that can be included in your bragging rights.

As always stay beautiful, confident, and sexy! XOXO!

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The mirror has two faces: Which one do you believe?

Hello Dolls! I know you guys are looking at this image saying ok, what's this about? Well, I've had something on my mind I want to share with all of you; it's something we all struggle with, but most people don't talk about it or ignore it. I know because I'm guiltily of ignoring it myself. First I want to say I'm no doctor, therapist, or anything like that; I just talk to you guys from a real place of what I've seen, heard, or experienced for myself. Can I do that? Is that alright? Well, let's get started!
The two faces of a mirror, I know y'all like; what two faces? When I look I only see one, and that's the fabulous me! And your right there is only one face and it's yours, but when I say two faces; what I mean is the face you see in the mirror, and the one you see in your MIND. What I'm really talking about is perception or body image perception. I've notice that some of us don't believe what we see in the mirror because our minds are giving us totally different information. We apply how we feel to how we look, thus using our outer appearance to reflect what we think we look like; and this simply isn't true (not in all cases, but a good majority). Like I said I'm guilty of the same misconception as most so I'm not trying to be Debbie Downer, I just want to be real with you.
How can we fix this? By being honest with ourselves about our appearances and how we appear to other people? Did you ever try asking somebody who knows you pretty well about how they perceive you? Well, you should if you didn't the results could shock you. Plus size ladies were affected by this most of all that's why we seem to miss the mark when trying to reinvent ourselves; a majority of the time we don't know where to start so we go for the easiest mark. Fashion magazines, clothing stores that don't go up to our size, wear items six sizes too small; all in an effort to feel better about our own perception of ourselves. And why? It does nothing but stress us out later if we feel like we don't measure up. Our minds are the "I can wear that beast" and we feed it by feeding into the mainstream idea of what a "woman" should look like. That 'beast' tell us we can do something and we believe it that's the minds perception. Then we do it and look in the mirror at our handiwork and we look a HOT MESS! That my lovely is the mirrors perception. The mirror is what's real; the mind is what is fooling us every time. I guess that's were we get the phrase GO AND GET YOUR MIND RIGHT! Because it can truly be the worst if that's how we continue to go through life.
Do some soul searching and really find out what it is that's causing you to believe a lie. You have to approve of yourself before anyone else can approve of you. Which mirror would you chose? Until next time my loves! Stay beautiful, confident, sexy, and above all plus size and loving it!


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Falling in love with fall: styles we love & the ones we don't

Hello Everybody! Today were going to discuss fall fashion trends among us full figured, voluptuous, sexy because that's just who we are people. Of course when moving from summer into fall some of the best styles summer has to offer will follow suit, that way we will get the best of both seasons.

What do we have to look forward to? Be on the look out for high low shirts and dresses. This look will work for a casual night out or a business chic look. But when applying the high low look be body conscious of what your showing, and how much of it you want to hide. Nothing ruins this looks more than a plus size girl who is going for a chic look and misses because the look doesn't suit her body type. Also, be aware of your environment; some high low outfits are not work appropriate.

The next trend that will blend itself into fall is bright colored leggings or jeans. This trend is going to be incorporated with dark colors and sheer some pieces that can help express your individuality. With this look different is good, but personality is better. And that is what playing with the different colors, and cuts of this style will do.

Other style must haves are some eccentric styles, and sheered colored material tops. These pairings give use a more versatile look. Plus size beauties don't be afraid to step out of the box when it comes to sheer items, just know when to go or it and when to let it go, that will be the difference between being a knockout an getting knocked out; see the difference.

My advice explore all of your options, gone are the days of mixed prints that will make someone dizzy when you walk(almost there are some still lurking around), overly sparkled, shapeless, flowing, or colored clothing designed to hide instead of accentuate all of our angles and curves. Full figured fashion had come a long way from those days, it's a revolution and I for one is going to always be on it's side.

Stay beautiful, sexy, confident, and above all full figured! Until next time always be proud of your progress no matter how far, long, or hard it was to attain it. Love you all! Xoxoxox!

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Dating the Voluptuous way: How curvy women should dress for a day or night out on the town!

YES! I'm absolutely going to go there! Dating is hard enough without adding the prep time it takes to get ready for it, but when you also add to the equation being plus sized it takes the "Dating Game" to a new level entirely.

The first date can make or break a possible future relationship, so it's important to identify whether or not your comfortable with this person in a setting were it will be the two of you and no other daters (double dating), or group setting. If you can, find out what type of date your going out on so that dressing for the occasion will be as effortless as possible. Not only will knowing ahead of time give you an edge, but it will also provide you with back up conversation material should you run out of things to talk about. But if your date is cute, articulate, and knowledgeable trust me you should not be lacking in the communication department. But should you find that they're all looks and no substance cut and run ASAP! Because there's nothing worst that a cute DULL date; whose only conversation is about me, myself, & I.

For a casual date: whether it be two people or a group, I would recommend a versatile flowing top maybe a solid color; something not too busy, a slim cute pair of jeans (to show off your shape or your hour glass shape), and a cute flat or booties to complement with limited accessories. It's best to stick to earrings and bangles to draw attention to your face and hands. Go light on the makeup, your date shouldn't be tempted to use a butter knife to chisel the foundation off of your face!

For a lunch date: I suggest to try and be dressy casual. That way you will be prepared for any lunch setting; wether it be in a bistro, a deli, a cafe, or a hot dog in the park; always put your best foot forward. P.S. Wear comfy shoes nothing too over the top that screams expensive & uncomfortable. That way if you two go for a walk you won't be unpleasant because your feet hurt. And we ALL know that when our feet starts to hurt the date or occasion is pretty much over.

For a beach or boardwalk date: Humm?That's a little more playful, so something light and airy would work best on this date. Possible a breathable cotton top, a crop pant or Capri, and a comfy light weight sneaker like Toms or a wedge. Little to no accessories and a light handbag if needed. On a beach date its likely that you will be out in the sun a majority of the time; so light clothing is essential. Also, there are plenty of boardwalk activities to do so wearing pants are a must! This date should be really fun so you can be sure there will be no awkward silences between you. Makeup should be minimal, and sun screen a must.

Now the date I know you've been waiting for the " Dinner Date" : This date is the most important date of all the dates previous. On this date there are no distractions. No friends, activities, or interruptions. This is when you really show who you are, and this is your chance to really WOW your date! When dressing show your personality; be classic but memorable. If wearing something black, be sure that your jewelry & accessories including your shoes stands out and brightens your ensemble. For your make up bring the attention to your eyes and mouth. You should always want to hold the attention there so that during conversation you'll be able to gage their reactions.

Over all, dating when with a great person can be a memorable experience or a disaster waiting to happen; but whatever the outcome please believe that you will be the best part of it! As always stay beautiful, confident, sexy, and full figured!!

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Full Figured Novels Fit or Flop: the truth about novels geared towards plus size women.

Who are full figured women? We are much more than our fabulous figures, we are intelligent, capable, worthy, stubborn, yet loving all at once. So, in being all that we are; there should be media or written works that reflect the different persona's we possess? Well, there are some written works out in the world; but a majority of them reflect a plus size woman as sort of depressed, no self worth, or settling in what or whom ever is available in that moment. And this conclusion is simply not true, though we all have the ability to throw ourselves pity parties every now and then at some point we get over it and move on. The characters in some of these novels seem to live in there misery. This trend of a low to no self esteem plus size woman has to stop! We need to have a better representation of the issues we face than the demur character that is lacking in relevance. I have read quite a few full figured novels that were absolutely on point as far as what we endure and how we endure it; but some of the others make me question the motive of some of these writers. What do you think? Have you read a genre for full
Figured women? If so, how did you feel about it?

Recently, on Fashion Plus's Facebook page(www.facebook.com/FashionPlusBlog) I've suggested some books that could possibly have the potential to be great reads they are:

• Real Fitness for Real Women by Rice Rochell

• Down that aisle in style by: Chanein Canton

• The curvy Girl's guid to style by: Chastity Garner

• We just have more to love by: W. Roger Borwnlee

I've never read these works before and will be reading them with you all. So, we'll be discovering the possibilities together. As always stay BEAUTIFUL, CONFIDENT, & above all SEXY! Any comments, questions etc. Please leave them below or contact me on:
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Voluptuous Beach BOMBSHELLS! What are you wearing to the beach?

Hey Diva's! Its that time again, BEACH SEASON! This is the time of summer we ladies dread the most, but this is our year ladies and I'm so excited to show some of the styles plus size designers have waiting for us! But first lets have a weigh in, how many of you ladies love the summer; but just hate to show arms, legs, and tummies? I know just how you feel, I would wear jeans or something that covered my legs whenever I was near the beach for fear that I would be embarrassed. But as I got a little older, bolder, and of course sexier the fear went away. You see Diva's no one can embarrass you, but you. And we all know that confidence speaks volumes! Believe me, the designers have heard our cries and we have what I like to call beach couture, yes were going from the CATWALK to the BOARDWALK and everywhere in between! Enjoy ladies, and I hope to see you all out there being full figured, confident, and above all SEXY!

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The Oh, I can do that girl!: styles so close they are simililar...Wait! They are exactly the same!

Do you know her?...She knows you...Watches your every move...Until it happens...You know what I'm talking about...She'll wear exactly what you wear! Ahhhh!

Divas! Have any of you been in this awkward situation when someone close to you, or a random person you might have said; hi to, is the exact copy or you? It's strange but it does happen. We full figured women work so hard to establish our own personal styles that every now and then styles cross paths, and that leads to disaster! The worst thing any woman could imagine style wise, is that another woman is wearing the same outfit as them; and even worse IT COULD FIT BETTER! This happen when you have friends and/or associates of similar size (sometimes, not always) that try to out due the other. How can you protect yourself? First, if you have a suspicion that someone you know has a tendency to wear the same item you do, make a conscious effort to not tell them what you want to wear ahead of time; especially to an event. A Diva more inclined to morph into you will most likely try to some how out due you and try to take your individuality away. Second, try not to shop together. I know that's pushing it! Women like to shop together give and give advice or opinions on an outfit choice, but when ATTENTION is on the line best of friends can become the worst of enemies. Have you ever had a friend who told you that you look good in a outfit (I know I have) knowing that you looked a HOT MESS? Yes ladies! The picture is starting to become a little more clearer isn't it? Not everyone is guilty of a crime like this, but lets be real it has happened before and there is nothing wrong with wanting to make an effort to stop the messiness. The next thing you want to do is find something that will stick out about you, like I've said before play up your "talents" so to speak; there is nothing more sexy than a woman with confidence. When you have confidence it shows, when your conscious about things that are troubling you of course that will show as well. If you found yourself in a situation that is uncomfortable remove yourself from it or change the mood to suit your favor. You are too beautiful to ever be in the shadows, go out on a limb and step it up. Try looks that are not the "norm" for you and see how they make you feel. Divas, I don't give advice to things I don't do my self or make an effort to do. I'm just the same as you, a full figured woman trying to find and keep great personal style. By talking with you ladies I have found a comfort in the plus size community that I didn't have growing. Believe me I've made some big mistakes, but it's all a learning process; and I'm learning with you. As always stay beautiful, confident, and full figured!

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Over the top pretty: how far do full figured women have to go to get noticed?

Hello Divas! I'm hear to report to you an alarming trend that occurs among the curvy, voluptuous, women of the world. Ladies, when the weather gets hotter and hotter the clothing starts to come off; and not all of us have to show all the goodies as the heat rises. You guys know what I'm talking about, I'm not the only Diva who's seen other queens letting it all hang out being careless about their sexiness or lack there of flap in the breeze. I've seen things wiggle and jiggle without much effort at all. Have you seen this before? Where is it most common? I wonder; how far do we as full figured women have to go to get noticed when the summer heat rises? This summer lets not have too big breasts in too small tank tops or shorts that can pass as thongs. Ladies, lets keep it Classy not Nasty. If your goal is to get attention from the male perspective; you won't get it by showing them yours first. You'll get it by showing them they have to work for all the goodies you have. Make them look at you and instantly wonder what you would look like without clothes; instead of showing them from the first impression. That will not make you a summer time boo, but instead a late night jump off; and Diva, we do not want that! Let this echo in your mind as you stock up on summer essentials; beauty, pretty, sexy, is not in what you wear; but how you wear it and the confidence you exude. By no means am I telling you to hide behind over sized clothing, shielding your sexiness from the world; but lets be smart about it. In hot weather our counter parts can wear next to nothing and unfortunately we can't follow in their footsteps. So, we have to stay a cut above and take our summer time game to a new level. First, my voluptuous Divas smaller is not better. Try and stay away from clothing that will in some way create friction between yourself and the garment. Nothing is more uncomfortable than the constant rubbing sensation caused by clothing that's too small. Did you ever notice that the tighter the clothes the more you sweat? Second, there is no creature on this earth more beautiful than you! So, please leave the heavy make-up at home. Putting on heavy make-up will suffocate your skin,allow you to sweat more, and most importantly take away from your natural beauty. I say stay fresh with your look use a light moisturizer(tinted if you prefer), maybe a good press powder to eliminate shine that may build up, and a sheer gloss to finish your look. Accessories should complement not overwhelm, but a statement they must make. When you walk in and out of a room you should be the first thing peoples eye catches, and the last thing their mouths talk about when complementing your style. As always stay beautiful, confident, full figured, and above all SEXY! Leave questions, comments, or concerns.   Until next time Divas!

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Sexy, Confident, & Covered up?

Hi Divas! I want to share something with you that I've recently experienced. Recently, I was out shopping for a fashion show I'm attending in the up coming week and while shopping I've noticed that most of the so called spring/summer collections feature clothing that hides our bodies instead of showcasing the best parts. Of course they have pieces that are to die for beautiful, but those are in very short supply, and don't fit all body types. Most of the time you might find sweater like cover ups, & oversized, printed, sparkly tops. Is this fashionable to the full figured woman? To be hidden away under undesirable clothing when weather conditions becomes favorable? I say, NO! I want to be dressed as beautifully the next Diva regardless of size. How can a diva be sexy, confident, and covered up from head to toe in material for fear someone might be offended by our glory. Diva's for the rest of this season it will be my mission to express that full figured Diva's are more than a number on a scale. This spring/summer ladies, dress in the way in which you feel comfortable no matter how uncomfortable the haters are. I can only speak for myself, but I've spent too many years covering myself because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. I don't know how I had this thought in my head, but it was always my "thinking" that I had to hide my legs, thighs, and upper arms because it was considered nasty for a big girl to show these things because they weren't considered "sexy." As I got older I realized that wasn't true; well...not all of it. There is a way to be beautiful, and comfortable without stepping over the line of looking a total mess. First, BODY TYPE!! It plays a crucial role in how you present yourself during the summer. If you haven't already please read the KNOW YOUR PLUSIVITY article that was published before and that may help you to identify the category you should be in. Frequent different venues, ask other Diva's what or whom they're wearing, you never know you might make a friend along the way! As always stay the STRONG, CURVY, or FULL FIGURED DIVAS THAT YOU ALL ARE! Leave any questions, comments, or concerns below. If you have a story you want to share, please feel free to do so. Until next time, xoxo!

Brands: the good, bad, & the ugly! Just because it's recognizable doesn't make it cute!

Hola, Diva's! I've noticed a trend going around, and I wanted the opportunity to address it. Being in retail I've seen items go in and out of style over the years. It seems like the most expensive item is usually the ugliest. I never understood why some Diva's would pay top dollar to look like a low paid fool? It's a big difference between actually being different and being a clown. Ladies, if you ever get that close to the edge remember personal style doesn't come from the main stream it comes from you.We influence the top designers, so give them something to work with. There are places to shop that don't offer designer name brands, but make up for it in offering great personal style. Diva's! Step out of your box, play around with different styles, but remember not to lose yourself in the process. If going to be a fashionista you must be versatile in all things that you do. With the upcoming summer, there will be lots of exotic fashion flavors to sample. Don't get caught up in the hype of always having to wear a label to feel validated as a woman with great style. As always stay beautiful, confident, an above all a show stopper! Please follow and share with a fellow Diva. Be on the look out for the next post, Sexy, Confident, and Covered up? Please leave comments below! Xoxox!

Do you know your plusivity level? A full figured woman's guide to self evaluation.

Hello Diva's! I know you guys are looking at the title saying "it's happened she's lost her mind!" Nope, I haven't on the contrary I think I've got a jewel. What is plusivity? Plusivity is your level of thickness. Now ladies, some of us are guilty of not gageing our sizes properly therefore not wearing the right size clothing. The other day I saw a wanna be diva walking wearing a tight purple shirt and tighter jeans with it. It was super hot that day and all I could think was that she was hot and uncomfortable. So, I thought to myself; I wonder If anyone else has this issue. A lot of times retailers don't care if their clothing fits us well as long as it sells. How many times have you gone into a store and picked up something your size only to try it on and it doesn't fit? And what's the usual excuse oh some places cut the clothing different, at times that's true; but there are also times where were just not a priority because were not the target group. So, my answer to that is try to stick closely to the specialty shops that cater to a fuller woman; that way it will be less competition between us and our smaller counterparts. Diva's won't feel the need to squeeze into too tight clothing and by identifying your plusivity level your experience should be a good one. What are the levels? Short/tall& round, big/small breasts( it matters), thick, curvy, etc you guys get the point! Basically, Know how far you need the spandex to stretch. The last thing you want is to look like you have two animals fighting each other in the front & back of your clothes. Women that are round on the top & bottom should try to wear A-line dresses that flair or flow outward as to mask your belly of thats a problem area, also flowing tops would be a good look. Thick or curvy women accentuate by wearing a more fitting look, but keep it classy; it's a thin line between classy and nasty, don't cross it! Tall women try not to get clothing that hangs on you. You know the type, the kind of clothing that wears you instead of you wearing it. Diva, every move you make should be watched as if you danced from point A to B. It should hug all the right places, hide all the bad ones, and moves like your own skin. Believe me, if you keep these basic ideas in mind nothing and nobody will ever call you hot and uncomfortable EVER AGAIN! Until next time ladies, remain beautiful, confident, and above all a SHOW-STOPPER! Xoxo!

Were taking Fashion Plus on the road!

Hello my full figured & fashionable ladies! In the coming weeks I will be traveling throughout the metro area visiting fashion shows & observing what is being worn on the streets( a full figured girl's red carpet). Along the way I hope to pick up some tips to bring back to you. If there are any particular places that I should visit please comment below and send me some info. In the meantime, let's talk trends! This season is full of new trends, classics, and some down right statement making pieces. As always animal prints are in full force, but ladies please be careful how you wear them. It's a thin line between chic and shock! Don't let the print overpower the look your going for, it should always complement or accent. This season I'm so proud to say that the plus size woman is taking center stage! I can't wait to see what the season brings! Here's some photo's just to show you what's coming your way! Don't forget to comment below! Xoxoxo!

Fashion on the plus side! Spring is here guide to stepping up your game!

Hi Diva's! Spring/Summer is quickly coming, are you ready for the style explosions coming your way? I went shopping recently and I begin to notice that plus fashion is defiantly on the rise in the metro area. But as quickly as it's rising some trends are typical to the season when it comes to plus sizes. So, I'm shopping and I see this very cute top. When I shop I look for pieces that I can dress up or down, and are flattering to my shape( I have a larger bottom area, then top). When I got the item home I realized that I have the exact same top, same color, different fabrics & stores they were purchased in. Don't you just hate that? You get something home only to realize you have it already? I do too! This occurrence is what I know it as the FASHION REPETITION! That's when you know a change has to be made ASAP! it's sad that some so called fashion designers only have one kind of vision when it comes to Diva's like ourselves. So, I urge everyone to not conform to these narrow designers but to push them to their limits. Ladies, the seasons changing let your beautiful arms & legs free from bondage! We shouldn't have to cover up in the same drab clothing while other women wear two strings and a handkerchief! Diva's this is our year and this year THE CLOTHES ARE COMING OFF! I have some pictures I want to share of some spring styles we can incorporate into our wardrobe. As always ladies, stay beautiful, confident, & sex!

Luv ya!

Originality not so original: how can we get it back again?

Hello diva's! Let's talk originality, how many of us can honestly say that our styles are original? Very few I'm I think. Some of us think were original but really were following what the fashion trend is at the time. We as a whole normally rely on what were told we should look like or wear according to what magazine executives say is a MUST HAVE for a week or two. What do you think about that? Do you like to be told that this particular item is what you should have, and not that other item from last week that looks exactly the same but in a different color? No! I don't either. It's hard enough to find great buys being a plus woman as it is, let alone be told that I have got to have this or my fashion future will be ruined. So I pose the question, what is originality to you? How do you set yourself apart from the thousands of other women, who may purchase the same item(s) as you? I came across this picture that talks about barriers being a plus size woman and I wanted to share it with you all in hopes that it would encourage some of us to break as many of them as possible. Please leave any questions, comments or concerns below. Don't forget to follow one of your favorite plus size divas! Until next time ladies! Xoxox!

Fabulously Plus Girl.

IT'S MY SIZE! BUT SHOULD I WEAR IT?? stretch don't stretch plus clothing that isn't quite plus.

Hi diva's! Today we talk about a very serious subject plaguing not just the plus size community, but the entire fashion community as a whole. Its the I CAN FIT THAT BEAST!! YES! That beast sits on our shoulders and convinces us that, that smaller size will fit and we can pull it off. Also, who ever thinks we can't is a hater. Ladies were all guilty of seeing something we like that's too small and we get the largest size and squeeze into it anyway and swear were cute! Even smaller women are guilty of it, but the difference there is there clothes are baggy were as ours is too damn tight. I've seen an offender of I CAN FIT THAT BEAST yesterday; there I was minding my own business when I saw this diva getting out of her car, that's when I saw it...HER OUTFIT! Don't get me wrong what she had on was very cute, and she was a pretty girl, but what she had on could have be a size or two bigger than it was. Like I said before I'm also guilty of the beast sitting on my shoulders that tells me I can fit that too, but I know how to work around it. So, ladies here are some tips and tricks that helped me to work with clothing that a wee bit too small. First, I want to say that if your on a budget( like me) sometimes you have to work with what you have. So, please there is NO SHAME in our games; we just have to clean it up a little and make it look effortless. Diva's, when wearing a small article of clothing make sure it doesn't bring too much attention to the wrong places. For example, it you wear tight fitting jeans; your top doesn't have to be equally tight if not tighter. If you have a "tummy pocket" bring the attention up! Take it away from your tummy area and bring it to your face or my personal favorite your breasts; a very good bra is required for such a task. If your face is beautiful, makeup flawless, accessories complementing, and breasts at eye level; trust me you won't have to worry about your tummy. If your small on top but big on the bottom, this works a little opposite. you want to bring the attention a bit lower. So, your best bet is to emphasize your hips; wear low rise or hip hugging jeans to give your self more shape or curve. Another trick I want to share is pairing small with loose articles of clothing. If you wear something small on top and big on the bottom; take care to ease the transition from one to the next. Put something a little flowing on top to complement the tighter clothing and always, always make sure your comfortable with the transition. Because, if your not; the uncomfortable expression will be written all across your face; and you will lose the effect your trying to give. Whats the effect your trying to give? Easy, I'm sexy no matter my size; and I'm confident about myself and my capabilities; How about yourself? Until next time diva's stay beautiful, confindent, and sexy! Any questions, comments, or concerns leave them below. Thanks!

Fabulous Plus Girl

Accessorize Your Accessories: Just because it's in style doesn't make it right

Hello Divas! Today were going to be talking about over sized accessories trend. I am a girl about accessories, but ladies we must know the limits of being a truly fashionable diva! I love putting on accessories, it just has a way of making an outfit complete; however we do have a tendency to go overboard. Have you ever seen someone who should be on an episode of, ACCESSORIES GONE WILD! Well , I have too; and believe me I just want to tap her on the shoulder and ask her if she thinks that (earrings, necklace, etc.) is cute. But you can't do that without being offensive right? Over sized jewelry, earrings especially can weigh down your ears; and make your ears sag; Not a cute situation! So what should you do when faced with a similar situation? Number 1, the rules of purchasing DO NOT apply to the rules of accessory wear; for example when your shopping and you see something cute and it comes in different colors, you would buy one in every color; when in doubt get them all. That rule does not apply, when in doubt don't put them all on at once! Choose a few flattering pieces that complement each other as well as you; and your body will be a more clutter free space. Remember ladies sometimes less is more! There are a lot of beautiful, bold, statement jewelry and accessories out there that I'm sure will make your outfit pop with beautiful energy. But, there is also jewelry and accessories that don't complement you at all and can actually make you appear bigger that you are; and who wants that? Not you and defiantly not me! Stick to one or two statement pieces are enough, more than that your just looking for the wrong kind of attention. Just because its in fashion doesn't mean it's the right fashion statement for you. Second, Know what type fits your body, try them on in the store and examine yourself from every possibly flattering angle you can conceive in your mind before you make a commitment to buy, it you don't like it walk away knowing that you've made the right decision. Who wants to deal with the hassle of buying something for it not to work out; then have to return it? Third, make sure it complements your outfit for whatever event you maybe attending. There is nothing worse than not have the right piece to finish off your look. Lastly, definitely shop around. Visit places like forever 21, fashion bug, etc. Don't limit your self to one store just because you've found great items there before. Also, places like thrift stores also carry jewelry/accessories that are cute and don't break the bank, remember you could get some great finds in the oddest of places. These are just a few things that I do when looking for statement jewelry/accessories, What are some of the things you look for when making a decision to purchase? What factors are important to you? Please share some of your do's and don't of accessorizing in the comment section below. Thanks for reading! Until next time diva's stay big, beautiful, and fashionable!

Fabulous Plus Girl

From Blah to Bright: New colors leading to a new you!

Hello ladies! Today I want to talk with you about our color personalities. As plus size women we tend to stick to dark colors, mostly because like everyone we all know that dark colors like for example black; hides a multitude of sins. Well ladies I challenge you! I challenge you to step out of your box and branch into trying different colors. I am very guilty of committing the same crime. I think for the longest time I felt comfortable in black. It hid features I didn't want anyone to see, and it enabled me to not care what I looked like or how I felt when wearing it. Those days are over, I not only challenge you; but myself as well. Try to wear colors that in the past you've tried to stay away from, because you felt as if they were unflattering. If your still uncomfortable with those colors try pairing them with a dark color to make the dark color pop more; and be more appealing. Prints also scare some Plus Size Divas, well I'm here to tell you; fear no more! For the spring its very typical for plus size clothing retailers to carry floral prints. I don't know about you divas, but I'm not a fan of the floral print. Sometimes when I go into a store looking for a great spring/summer dress with prints on them; the prints are in the wrong places, bringing too much attention to what I don't want people to see, or the dress is cute; but the print on it makes it ugly. Have you ladies had any of these same issues? What are some of the things you've come across in your shopping adventures that made you want to turn and run? My rule of thumb when wearing a print is to pair it with a solid color. Depending on the print it self it can sometimes be difficult to imagine how you would wear it. But, I stress to you divas you'll never know how you feel about it until you try it for your self. Just because were big women doesn't mean that we are forever trapped in a world were the only color that exists is black. Until next time, Divas!


Fabulous Plus Girl     

Hi Everyone! It's Fabulous Plus Girl here. I just wanted to let everyone know that I have been researching fashion/fashion shows in the New York/New Jersey area and I can't wait to start telling you guys about the experiences and encounters that could happen. On this journey I will be attentively observing the way my plus size sistas represent themselves when attending these show, also when there modeling in them. Local fashion will be the main focus, because we all know that different areas have their own way of styling and profiling. There will be no style left behind! Whats the local style where you live? What's is style for this season for you/ or whats your style MUST have that completes your look? As always please leave questions and comments below; and remember your not born with style, you have to earn it!

 Fabulous Plus Girl

The New Girl On The Block

Hello All,

I'm fabulous Fashion Girl! I'm new on the blogging scene and I want to voice my opinion on plus size fashion. I decided since there wasn't a forum for plus size girls like me to express their opinions and share stories, I would create one for myself. My background is I attended a fashion school and hold a degree on the subject, I love to write also; so why not combine the two loves and FASHION PLUS was born. On this blog we will not only talk about fashion, but everyday issues plus size girls have & how we deal with them. Entrepreneurship, relationships with others, and of course style tips and stories will be shared. I would love to hear from you (the readers) on subjects and topics that are of interest to you, or and questions or concerns you may have about anything I will dutifully answer my opinion with the best of my ability. This is my very first blog, so please be respectful when making comments(constructive criticism is welcome). Thank you for reading, I hope I don't disappoint you, and I hope you are as excited as I am to be doing what I love!